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Letter
from Goa
VARIOUS
imaginative and high-sounding titles have been bestowed
on Goa over the centuries. Let us add here on of our own:
Goa Centre for Celebrations. Down here on the west coast
of India, the year is about to ring out after having thrown
up a innumerable celebrations, religious or otherwise. Perhaps
I am repeating when I say that people have been coming here
not only attracted by the beauty of our land but for a lot
of other good, bad and even ugly reasons.
Prime
Minister Atal Behari Vajpayee will arrive here soon, to
have a good rest at a South Goa resort. North Goa seems
to be at the losing end, at least where celebrities are
concerned, since the advent of the "River Princess".
Anyway, one wonders whether the year-end in Goa is fine
enough time for such a thing. His deputy, Advani, will be
here too. The Goa cops are already hard put to contain the
threat that the Al-Qaeda terrorists have infiltrated Goa
to bomb the Israelis who descend on Anjuna and other beaches
for the New Year celebrations.
The
round of rave parties has already begun and the cops are
said to be on the lookout to stop them. But who can see
in the dark? Definitely not the cops, who can't even see
crime in broad daylight. Despite these eternal handicaps
they are now burdened with watching Goa's rough, serpentine
roads to see that no harm comes to the national leaders,
who would be here to rest for a couple of days or more.
The
terrorist bit has already terrorized the tourists, who would
have been here in several thousands otherwise. The visitors
appear to be much less in number than they once used to
be at this festive time of the year in Goa.
Come
December and several Goan NRIs return for a holiday to the
land of their forefathers. You find them all over the place
these days
visiting relatives, friends and acquaintances,
sampling the "natalamcho kunsvar" (Christmas sweets),
purchasing "cheurisam" at the Mapusa Friday Market
and
being virtually at all odd places. One wonders, however,
how many of them will find some time and would be inclined
to attend the Convention organised by the NRI Felicitation
Centre on November 29.
Well,
we haven't done with celebrations yet. At Goacom, we were
involved in a grand occasion of our very own with Marlon
Menezes, director of Goacom Insys, taking as
his life-partner lovely Aldila
Lobo. The nuptials took place at the Bambolim
Cross at 5.30 pm on December 27, with Fr Athaide, Fr Ronnie
D'Souza and Fr Archie Fernandes being the celebrants at
the Mass.
"God's
relationship with mankind is depicted, in the Old Testament,
in matrimonial language," intoned the suave priest
in his brief homily, which lauded Marlon and Aldila for
the crucial step they have taken. Later, at the green and
profusely decorated lawns of Cidade de Goa, many gathered
enthusiastically to shower the happy newly weds with red
rose petals and confetti
the youngsters blew bubbles
gloriously, while the sea clapped consistently, rhythmically
on the sands that lace the Cidade lawns.
Mrs
Dias, the toast mistress, sang some virtues of Marlon and
Aldila and their parents too, before going on to caution
the special man and his wife: "If somebody tells you
that there is a perfect marriage, don't believe them; it's
a myth." She added, "A marriage has to be nurtured
and sustained in love and understanding," and felt
that the intelligent and well-qualified couple possessed
it in plenty. Mrs Dias quoted Aldila, "Marlon is the
rugged type of hiking and biking man and I am a city girl.
Ever since we have known each other, we have found great
joy in doing the things that each other likes."
Not
really given much to formality, Marlon miked
sorry,
joked: "I had a fancy speech prepared and I left it
at the church," and thanked one and all for making
the wedding day such an august occasion. Aldila also had
her own say: "Where would we be without friends, who
were instrumental in bringing us together, and have great
pains, some crossing oceans and others just with the efforts
they put in, to be here today?" Aldila mentioned in
a special way Ariosto and Vivian Coelho, who she said were
"very instrumental" to bring Marlon and her together.
Alfie,
the favourite announcer of FM listeners in Goa, conducted
the function in his usually, very engaging manner. Archies,
with Santa Claus caps, provided melodious music, fitting
the occasion.
Shall
we say
Till then, and wish that the NEW YEAR 2003 ushers
in a heavy load of happiness, peace and prosperity to each
one of us in humankind
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Editor:
Joel D'Souza
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